Yes, this is brand-new information for you, and your reaction to this revelation seems completely rational. Yes, I am angry, and this is NEW information for me!įrom here, you should go to your room, your car, your treadmill, your coffee shop – or any place where you go to lick your wounds, ponder the events of your life, and attempt to make sense of things. If Alexis had admitted to this, apologized and asked for forgiveness, I’d definitely get there, but she says she has nothing to apologize for, is being flippant with me, and is telling others in our social group that I must be a nutcase, because this was YEARS ago and thus too infantile to discuss. My biggest take-away: I watched her wreck other marriages, but somehow never thought she would harm ME.